‘How is forced orgasm achieved and what exactly is it?
Forced orgasm is when the dominant brings the submissive to an orgasm while the submissive attempts to delay that orgasm for as long as they can. After the first orgasm the dominant will normally continue the process and cause multiple orgasms despite the discomfort a female submissive will feel, as her genitals might be sensitive. Males will be continually stimulated despite the period of rest that would normally be required after an orgasm.
How is this normally done? Well, the submissive could be tied down in order for the genitals to be accessible and the submissive should not be able to move much. Then the dominant could use any of the techniques mentioned earlier in the article to cause continual orgasm.
Why is forced orgasm such an attractive option for both dominants and submissives?
For the submissive forced orgasm is a wonderful experience because he or she knows that release follows even when discomfort is felt in between. It plays on the pleasure and pain principles that are central to quite lot of erotic stimulation in BDSM. The submissive can also relax and has no need to feel shame, as he or she has no control over the orgasm or when it happens. The submissive can just be submissive and safe. The submissive with sexual guilt issues can express their sexuality freely in this way and this will help that submissive to experience sex differently and much more positively.
The dominant partner will have different reasons for being attracted to this form of play. The aim might be to cause the submissive to become addicted to orgasm in order to pave the way for a period of orgasm denial. Remember that orgasm denial can be achieved in a variety of ways that are detailed in another article of mine like teasing and tying, teasing and denying and chastity devices. During orgasm denial no orgasms are allowed anymore. The dominant partner might also want to use this form of play as punishment for a submissive partner that cannot control their own sexual impulses and cannot obey rules on masturbation.
The control factor is a head rush for most dominants and the physical reactions of the submissive cause arousal and excitement for the dominant partner too.
As with all BDSM activities a safe word can be used to stop all activities.’ [x]